Tiny Steps Planner : Dialectical Behavior Therapy

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Introduction

Big goals often stall because each step feels like a leap. Tiny Steps Planner shrinks a values‑driven aim into “1 % moves”—micro‑actions so small that friction can’t stop them. When these 60‑second habits stack up (especially when tethered to an existing routine—“After I brew coffee, I’ll …”), momentum snowballs and the goal becomes inevitable.

Be Present: Tiny Steps Planner turns lofty values goals into bite‑size moves you can schedule today.
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Instructions

Tiny-First-Step Goal Planner — Guided Practice

Goal: Complete the planner for one value-aligned goal now; launch the first tiny step within the next 24 hours.

  • Session length: ≈ 6 min
  • Debrief: 1-min note — scheduled micro-action & calendar reminder time.

Steps

  1. Define the Goal (1 min)

    • What it means: Write a one-sentence goal tied to a top value.
    • Concrete example (“Write a novel” aligns with Creativity): “Complete first draft of 50 k-word novel in 12 months.”
    • Quick tip: Start with “I will” + verb + metric + timeframe.
  2. Brainstorm 10 Micro-Actions (3 min)

    • What it means: List ten ≤2-minute tasks that inch the goal forward—no action too small.
    • Concrete example: Open laptop, type one sentence, re-read yesterday’s line, name a character, jot conflict idea, set 2-min timer, write title options, create chapter folder, update word-count sheet, read one craft quote.
    • Quick tip: Quantity > quality. Use bullet list; don’t censor.
  3. Choose the First Tiny Step (30 sec)

    • What it means: Pick the easiest, most friction-free action.
    • Concrete example: “Open novel doc and type today’s date.”
    • Quick tip: If any doubt, make it smaller.
  4. Habit-Stack & Schedule (1 min)

    • What it means: Embed your tiny step after an existing routine cue: “After I ___, I’ll ___.”
    • Concrete example: “After I brew coffee at 7 a.m., I’ll open the novel doc.”
    • Quick tip: Add phone alert titled with both actions.
  5. Visual Reminder (30 sec)

    • What it means: Create a 3-word sticky note or phone widget to prompt the step.
    • Concrete example: Note: “Coffee → Doc.”
    • Quick tip: Place it on coffee machine or lock screen.

Quick Debrief (1 min)

  • What micro-action did you schedule?
  • What time did you set the calendar reminder?
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Worksheet & Virtual Coach

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FAQs

What if two minutes still feels heavy?

Halve it. Micro-actions can be 30 seconds (e.g., write one word). The win is consistency.

Do I need all ten actions?

Yes—variety prevents boredom. You’ll rotate through the list as each step becomes habitual.

When do I scale up?

After seven consecutive wins, expand by another “1%” (e.g., 2 → 4-minute writing sprint).

Can I plan multiple goals at once?

Stick to one goal per Tiny Steps sheet; too many dilute willpower.

What if I miss a day?

Note it without judgment, shrink the step if needed, restart next cue. Consistency beats perfection.

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Disclaimer

If you have any behavioral health questions or concerns, please talk to your healthcare or mental health care provider. This article is supported by peer-reviewed research and information drawn from behavioral health societies and governmental agencies. However, it is not a substitute for professional behavioral health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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