Obstacles & Strategies Worksheet : Dialectical Behavior Therapy

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Introduction

Great goals crash when hidden trip‑ups appear—fatigue, Wi‑Fi failures, rain. Obstacles & Strategies Worksheet is a 3‑column reality check: list likely roadblocks, pair each with a primary fix, and add a “Plan B” so momentum survives when Plan A fizzles. Research on implementation intentions shows that pre‑choosing solutions can cut failure rates in half.

Be Present: Obstacles & Strategies Worksheet turns “What if…?” into “When that happens, I’ll do this—no excuses.”
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Instructions

Obstacle–Strategy–Backup Worksheet

Goal: Fill one worksheet for a current SMART goal right now; review weekly to update.

  • Session length: ≈ 10 min
  • Debrief: 1-min note — most likely obstacle & which strategy feels strongest.

Steps

  1. Draw 3-Column Table (30 sec)

    • What it means: Label Column 1: Obstacle, 2: Strategy, 3: Backup.
    • Concrete example (Goal: 30-min run Mon/Wed/Fri): Three equal columns on notebook page.
    • Quick tip: Use landscape orientation for space.
  2. Brainstorm Obstacles (3 min)

    • What it means: Write at least five real-world barriers—internal & external.
    • Concrete example: Tired after work, rain, lost running shoes, friend invites dinner, knee pain flare.
    • Quick tip: Think “What usually derails me?”
  3. Add Primary Strategy (3 min)

    • What it means: Next column: your first-line fix for each obstacle.
    • Concrete example: Tired → run 10 min only; Rain → treadmill; Shoes → keep spare pair at office.
    • Quick tip: Strategy must feel 80 % doable.
  4. Add Backup (2 min)

    • What it means: Plan B if Strategy fails.
    • Concrete example: Tired Plan B → do 5-min HIIT video; Rain Plan B → stretch + core at home.
    • Quick tip: Backup smaller/easier than Strategy.
  5. Highlight Top 3 Obstacles (30 sec)

    • What it means: Star the three likeliest derailers; memorise their plans.
    • Concrete example: Star tired, rain, dinner invite.
    • Quick tip: Snap photo & set as phone wallpaper.
  6. Post & Review Reminder (1 min)

    • What it means: Stick worksheet on fridge, desk, or phone lock-screen; set weekly review alert.
    • Concrete example: Sunday 6 p.m. alert: “Update obstacle grid.”
    • Quick tip: Visual cue keeps solutions handy.

Quick Debrief (1 min)

  • Which obstacle is most likely to derail you?
  • Which strategy feels the strongest?
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Worksheet & Virtual Coach

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FAQs

What if I can’t think of obstacles?

Rewind past failures—what stopped you before? Ask a friend to predict; outside eyes spot blind spots.

Too many obstacles—overwhelming!

Prioritise top five; cover edge cases later. Focus on biggest 20% that cause 80% of derailments.

Strategy didn’t work—now what?

Treat data, not defeat. Move failed Strategy to Backup, craft a new primary fix, and keep iterating.

Can I use the sheet for team projects?

Yes—make columns collective; assign owners to each Strategy/Backup for accountability.

How often to refresh?

Weekly review keeps plans current; big life/job changes warrant immediate overhaul.

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Disclaimer

If you have any behavioral health questions or concerns, please talk to your healthcare or mental health care provider. This article is supported by peer-reviewed research and information drawn from behavioral health societies and governmental agencies. However, it is not a substitute for professional behavioral health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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