Graded Task List : Dialectical Behavior Therapy

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Introduction

Big projects—cleaning the garage, writing a term paper, job-searching—often trigger overwhelm paralysis. Graded Tasking slices an intimidating goal into a ladder of doable rungs, ordered from easiest to hardest. Each completed rung boosts mastery, self-efficacy, and dopamine, making the next step feel lighter. Controlled studies show that graded task lists raise homework completion and speed depression recovery compared with “just try harder” advice.

Behavioral Activation & Exposure: Graded Task List turns elephant-sized chores into a series of bite-sized wins.
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Instructions

Goal: Build and climb one task ladder every week for the next four weeks.
Planning time: 10 minutes  Action time: You choose the pace.

Step 1: State the Goal
Write the big outcome you want.
Example: “Organise garage.”
Keep it short—one clear, concrete sentence.

Step 2: Brain-Dump Steps
List every mini-task that contributes to the goal (no need to order yet).
Example: Move bikes, sort boxes, donate tools, sweep floor.
Quantity first—don’t worry about sequence yet.

Step 3: Estimate Difficulty (0–10)
Gut-rate each step for effort or anxiety.
Sweep 3, Donate 6, Sort 8.
Go with your instinct to avoid overthinking.

Step 4: Order from Easiest Up
Reorder the tasks from easiest to hardest based on the scores.
Example: 1) Sweep (3) → 2) Move bikes (4)…
Ties? Go with whichever feels friendlier.

Step 5: Assign Dates & Durations
Schedule 1–2 rungs per day in your calendar.
Example: Sat 10:00–10:20 a.m. Sweep; 10:25–10:45 Move bikes.
Keep each rung ≤ 20 minutes max.

Step 6: Start With One
Do the first rung today, or right now if possible.
Start: Sweep.
Momentum loves immediacy.

Step 7: Mark Progress
Use ✓ = finished, ↻ = partly done, ✗ = skipped. Log mood (0–10) after each rung.
Example: ✓ Sweep (Mood +2).
Small mood bumps prove it’s working.

Step 8: Review & Re-rate
At week’s end, count ✓’s, update difficulty ratings, and adjust the plan.
Example: 5/7 rungs done—finish remaining next week.
Partial progress (↻) is just information, not failure.

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FAQs

Why difficulty 0-10 and not easy/medium/hard?

Numbers produce finer gradations, letting you sneak in 5-minute micro-steps (difficulty 2-3) that words might miss.

What if a rung still feels too hard on the day?

Split it again (micro-chunk) or drop to the next easier rung; never skip the ladder entirely.

Isn’t this just procrastination in disguise?

No—graded tasks move you forward while building competence. Procrastination stalls without progress.

Can I run multiple ladders at once?

Start with one to master the method; once confident, two concurrent ladders are fine—just schedule rungs on different days.

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Disclaimer

If you have any behavioral health questions or concerns, please talk to your healthcare or mental health care provider. This article is supported by peer-reviewed research and information drawn from behavioral health societies and governmental agencies. However, it is not a substitute for professional behavioral health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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