Five-Minute Starter : Dialectical Behavior Therapy

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Introduction

When a task feels huge, motivation bottoms out. But research on activation energy shows that committing to just five minutes is often enough to kick-start flow. The Five-Minute Starter shrinks any activity on your BA1 schedule to a bite-sized first step. Once you’re moving, dopamine nudges you to continue; if you still hate it after five minutes, you can stop—yet most people keep going.

Behavioral Activation & Exposure: Five-Minute Starter turns “I can’t” into “I’m already doing it.”
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Instructions

Goal: Use the starter on at least one Mastery or Pleasure task every day this week.
Prep time: 2 minutes  Action time: Exactly 5 minutes.

Step 1: Name the Big Task
Choose one BA1 task you’ve been avoiding.
Example: “Clean the kitchen.”
Write it on today’s planner to increase follow-through.

Step 2: Define the 5-Minute Slice
Break the task into something that takes 300 seconds or less.
Example: Wash 3 dishes, wipe 1 counter.
Smaller = better. Don’t overthink the “right” piece.

Step 3: Set a Visible Timer
Use a phone, stove, or digital timer. It must count down, not up.
5:00 ▶ — No distractions, no music, no app hopping.

Step 4: Start—No Debates
As soon as the timer starts, begin your action.
Example: Turn on faucet, grab sponge.
Don’t wait to feel ready—feeling follows motion.

Step 5: Stop or Continue
When the timer ends, choose: Stop, Continue, or Switch.
Example: Feeling okay? Keep going 10 more minutes.
70% of users choose to continue.

Step 6: Log the Outcome
Mark the result in your daily tracker: ✓ = finished, → = continued, ✗ = stopped at 5 min.
Example: → (continued)
This data flows into your BA3 ratings.

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FAQs

What if I quit at exactly five minutes?

Great—you still did more than zero. Celebrate the micro-win and schedule the same slice tomorrow.

Does this work for workouts or only chores?

Works for anything: five minutes of stretching, a single paragraph of writing, a three-slide deck draft.

I keep forgetting to set the timer.

Pre-set a recurring phone alarm titled “5-Min Start” or pair the task with an existing cue (after morning coffee).

Why not use the Pomodoro (25-minute) technique?

Pomodoro is fantastic once momentum exists. Five minutes targets the activation bottleneck, especially when mood is low.

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Disclaimer

If you have any behavioral health questions or concerns, please talk to your healthcare or mental health care provider. This article is supported by peer-reviewed research and information drawn from behavioral health societies and governmental agencies. However, it is not a substitute for professional behavioral health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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